I know it's a common thing when you get overwhelmed with the planning. Up until this point everything has been easy. Right off the bat we had our venue, caterer, and photographer. Now I have the dress and the officiant. Trying to find a DJ has just made want to give up on planning this wedding. Talking things over with FH and we just have different ideas of what we want. Most DJs I have looked at are for 4-5 hours. If we get married at 4 that means the wedding is over by 8. Sounds like a very boring party to me. Not to mention FH has cut out alcohol. Most of his family doesn't drink and I will have very little family at the wedding and they won't drink either. So we would be buying drinks for the bridal party. He says he wants me to have the wedding I have always wanted but I feel like I am going to let a lot of people down. When his sis got married she went all out. I know people will compare the 2. At the end of the day we will be married and that's the most important thing right?