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Has anyone else been fighting more ?

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Amanda, on September 15, 2019 at 9:11 PM

First let me say I absolutely love my fiancé. He is so good to me and we usually have such good communication and rarely ever fought until we started wedding planning. Key points is that we are from New York and are planning our wedding in North Carolina. We purposely gave ourselves a longer engagement so we would have more time to plan as well as pay for the destination wedding. We have made 2 big trips this year to NC to plan and take care of things with another coming up. With each trip he has become more confrontational and irritated when it comes to wedding decision making or discussions about finances. I hate to even bring up anything about the wedding or finances regarding it because he has said some really hurtful things. This is not typical of him at all in the 5 years we've been together. Has anyone else been fighting more with their significant other since the planning has commenced? If so any advice how to alleviate the stress and fighting going forward?

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Dedicated October 2021
Amanda · on September 16, 2019 at 5:38 PM
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I have taken the lead especially with vendors and payments and set up all of the appointments and meetings. I kept track of payments and bills etc but when its time for the monthly collection for payments he gets annoyed. Saying things like "all my money goes to you", which is super hurtful because none of it is going into my pocket. It's going towardd bills and deposits. I feel like the middle man between the vendors and him so in his eyes im like the annoying bill collector. There's like no winning in that situation.
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