Half of my bridesmaids have not ordered their dresses yet. Advice please!

I’m getting married on October 6th of this year. We decided to order bridesmaid dresses online through a bridal boutique website because the dresses are very affordable. I also allowed each of my girls to choose their own dress, as long as the colors all matched. I did this purposely so that the girls could select a dress that would fit their budget. The most expensive dress that one of my bridesmaids selected was $95. I asked each of my girls to have their dresses ordered by April 1st. Mostly because it is a mail order service, so I wanted to allow plenty of time for returns in case a dress didn’t fit properly or was damaged in the mail.

It is now mid April and half of my bridesmaids still have not ordered their dresses. I’m trying not to be pushy. I don’t want to be a bridezilla. But these girls have had their dresses picked out since February. They have had plenty of time, in my opinion, to order their dresses by now. I should add that the bridesmaids that haven’t ordered their dresses are not tight for money. These particular girls have full time jobs with great pay and no children. If I thought it was an issue of affordability, I would totally have more sympathy and offer to help. They choose not to order their dresses for my wedding, but announce how they just got a wonderful mani and pedi 🙄

The disclaimer on the website states to allow roughly 2 months for processing and shipment. I’m worried that if the dresses aren’t ordered soon, we will be cutting it really close. Especially if a return needs to be made.

What should I do? Am I being ridiculous?