Hairpiece & Earrings help!

Hey all! I feel like I’m having an existential crisis trying to choose a hairpiece and earrings. My dress has a belt that I’ve been trying to use as inspiration, and a couple months ago I fell in love with these large rhinestone earrings and now the same brand has launched their hairpiece collection. I love the hair vine but I’m worried it’ll be too much with the belt and earrings, so I’ve thought about smaller similar-looking earrings or the hair pins. Then I made life harder by finding these drop floral earrings on Etsy that come in a color that would match the belt. I don’t normally wear a lot of jewelry and when I do it’s usually small. Basically I’m struggling between a balance of staying true to my personal style, but wanting to be a little extra because it is my wedding, but not wanting to be TOO extra and look fake. ANY opinions or thoughts or help would be so appreciated!!