Ok my 2021 brides! I need to vent for a second and get some thoughts on this subject.
My fiancé and I are getting married on May 30 (less than four months away 🎉).
We changed the location due to Covid protocols back in November and sent out new Save the Locations cards before Christmas.
My cousin and I had a conversation last night over the phone because she had “concerns” about our wedding... oh, she’s also a bridesmaid.
She started making me feel guilty because we are moving forward with our wedding and asked if we can limit the amount of guests, yet she’s going to hop on a plane and stay in a hotel for our wedding but wants us to limit how many people we have.
She also asked me how I would feel if someone got Covid while attending my wedding potentially from someone who could be contagious.
The only words I could utter out of my mouth were, “We have thought about postponing, but we are going to move forward with our wedding. If someone doesn’t feel comfortable coming, then they do not have to come. We are not forcing anyone to attend.”
Needless to say, I was shocked and deeply hurt and felt disrespected.
Have any of my bride friends on here been through something similar?