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Ana
Expert December 2017

Guests not responding

Ana, on June 30, 2017 at 2:09 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 26

My invitation place gave me an excel sheet to fill out with the final names & addresses of my guests that I need to have turned into them soon. It's going to take a while & a couple of my guests aren't making it any easier. I have messaged a couple of friends asking if they were wanting to bringing...

My invitation place gave me an excel sheet to fill out with the final names & addresses of my guests that I need to have turned into them soon. It's going to take a while & a couple of my guests aren't making it any easier.

I have messaged a couple of friends asking if they were wanting to bringing a plus one, and if they would like to, I will add it to the final list (for the correct addressing because I need to add "and guest" and have a final count to the excel sheet). Some of my other friends told me not to give them a plus one, so I'm making sure. So these 2 friends saw my message and didn't respond. A week later, I sent another message saying I was sorry that I'm messaging again but that I would like to know so I can add it on. They saw the message again, didn't respond. It's been a couple of days since they saw this. What do I do? If they are not responding for some odd reason, do I still write plus one? Have you ever had guests ignore you at all???

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  • D&G114
    Super January 2018
    D&G114 ·
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    I have never heard of asking beforehand. You ask when you send the invitation. They don't want to bring one, they say no. If I were dating someone new, I might not know if I want to bring them until the RSVP date came.

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  • BrideBelle
    Devoted August 2017
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    Besides, December is a long ways away. Alot can happen in a relationship between here and now!

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  • Ana
    Expert December 2017
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    @D&G114 I already figured out what to do. I appreciate it! Thank you! Smiley smile

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  • FutureMrs
    Super January 2019
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    I wouldn't give them a plus one if they were purposely ignoring me. They had their chance (two actually).

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  • Ana
    Expert December 2017
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    @Sally yes, Sally. @bluehen gave some great advice that I took. It's alright now! lol.

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  • Lauren
    Dedicated June 2018
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    I'm a blunt person.. if they didn't respond twice I'd literally say "f 'em" and not put them down as going.. AT ALL. But that's just me.

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