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Vee
Devoted June 2022

Guests dining separately?

Vee, on December 6, 2013 at 7:47 AM

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Argh... okay so I have found the most perfect place. The issue is, the place is a historical site (think museum, it's not a museum though but a mansion) and it has many rooms/areas. We have at least 150 people, if we did it here we could have our 200 even...but the problem is the guest would dine in...

Argh... okay so I have found the most perfect place. The issue is, the place is a historical site (think museum, it's not a museum though but a mansion) and it has many rooms/areas. We have at least 150 people, if we did it here we could have our 200 even...but the problem is the guest would dine in 2 separate rooms.

I kinda like the idea, I think we can work it and it'll be different. Dancing will be in a common room, and the dinning areas would still be accessible. In the dancing area we could still have smaller tables and chairs for people to rest if they'd like to do so there. The two dining room areas could be "linked" via a carpet or pathway to not make it seem like they are being segregated maybe. The rooms are connected via a lovely stone-floored courtyard so it would be easy to do. The doors to these rooms would not be closed of course.

My mom and HF are unsure. They think people might feel segregated or must just dislike the idea in general. What do you ladies think?

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  • Ashlee
    VIP June 2015
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    What is that place called? We are getting married in a place VERRRRY similar lol

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  • Vee
    Devoted June 2022
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    @Ashlee, It's in Miami, the Curtiss Mansion!

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  • Ashlee
    VIP June 2015
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    Oh! Hahaha I'm in Cali but it's called the Grand Island Mansion. Same situation but I have time to figure mine out. Let us know what you come up with! That's crazy that its almost the exact same!

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  • Blondie123
    Super July 2014
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    I know a lot of people who like places like that for parties- it feels much more intimate for the amount of poeple you are having. Then you can have appetizers spread out in a few rooms so people have to go and mingle and see the whole place. It's only the dinner that people have to eat separately, and it's not like people usually talk between tables anyway- it's much quieter. Just make sure to have a lot of seating in the area that has dancing so people can hear annoucement and talk even if they are not dancing.

    I found a venue like that that I loved, and because it was set up like that was one great aspect. Unfortunately they were booked too far out (more than 2 years), and we didn't want to wait. I just love old houses. I ended up picking a historic ballroom instead :-)

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  • Rebecca
    Super December 2013
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    I went to a big dinner event at a separated room venue and it was awful. We talked to our table (who we already knew) and that was it. You couldn't hear any of the speeches or announcements, it was really awkward.

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
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    I second what Rebecca said.

    9 years ago I was at a banquet with two rooms. I rarely went out of the room I was in (because I was busy talking to people there) and I completely forgot there was another room. The other room was smaller and we joked it was the kids' room. I didn't care for it.

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