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Dedicated November 2017

Guests bringing more than one person

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Leah, on October 18, 2017 at 8:33 PM

So I have a lot of guests who have been asking me ifnthey can bring 2 or 3 extra guests to the wedding. Our venue has a limited amount of space for guests and I am trying to figure out a way to politely tell them that I would prefer if they only bring one guest. Has anyone else dealt with this? If...

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Devoted September 2017
mataDC · on October 19, 2017 at 1:45 AM
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No, how rude!
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VABW · on October 19, 2017 at 2:26 AM
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Karen, if you are close enough to them that you are inviting them to your wedding you'd probably know they are in a polygamous relationship and address the invite to each by name
In this instance they are requesting to bring additional random friends, not SOs
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Super November 2017
Jessica · on October 19, 2017 at 5:09 AM
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My answer would be NO. Exactly like that too. "NO."
...but I've also reached the point where I have absolutely zero fucks left to give and don't really care who I offend sooo maybe follow the advice of pp's lol but in my opinion, if you're rude enough to ask me to bring, not even just ONE extra guest but 2 or 3, then you deserve a rude response right back. Not even sorry.
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Master June 2017
Mrs. Coakley · on October 19, 2017 at 6:51 AM
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No is a complete sentence.
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Expert September 2018
Meg · on October 19, 2017 at 7:33 AM
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This is crazy to me. People have some nerve. I am not looking forward to RSVPs! Good luck!
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Dedicated December 2017
Amy · on October 19, 2017 at 8:42 AM
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Ew, it's never okay for guests to bring friends you don't even know. Plus 1's are for SOs.
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Expert September 2018
Madison · on October 19, 2017 at 8:56 AM
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Definitely not. IF you get a plus one, it is ONE. This is your event, not theirs. How rude!
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Master August 2017
firstoneat56 · on October 19, 2017 at 9:08 AM
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@karenk I think you mean polyamorous. Polygamy is being married to more than one person which is illegal.
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Dedicated November 2017
Leah · on October 19, 2017 at 9:26 AM
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None of the people I invited are in polygamous relationships. The people they invited and are wantingnto invite are their friends, not lovers, or significant others or even their relatives I did go as far as to ask who they are wanting to bring so I know for a fact that the people they want to being are their friends. Which when it is their wedd8ngnthey are more than welcome to invite.
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