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Devoted October 2019

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Tbear, on July 18, 2019 at 10:29 AM

I got my first "Where is my invitation... what am I not on the list.. if you cared about me then you would have invited me... your wedding was supposed to help me believe in true love" confrontation this morning over a chat platform. From someone that I took a weekend road trip with over 6 years ago...

I got my first "Where is my invitation... what am I not on the list.. if you cared about me then you would have invited me... your wedding was supposed to help me believe in true love" confrontation this morning over a chat platform.
From someone that I took a weekend road trip with over 6 years ago and we have never hung out for any long period of time since then either alone or with my FH

For realz.*cue eye roll*

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Super September 2019
Meghan · on July 18, 2019 at 12:27 PM
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Oh I wanted to. Haha. I wanted to be like, "Guess that means we'll put you down as a no" but it's from FH's side so I bit my tongue and let him handle it.
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Just Said Yes August 2021
Clara · on July 18, 2019 at 12:49 PM
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Oh my god, "Your wedding was supposed to help me believe in true love." I CANNOT.
Like, go watch the notebook or something!!
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Super September 2019
ASMini914 · on July 18, 2019 at 12:49 PM
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We got our first “can my teenage daughter bring her friend to hang out” question the other night 🙄 it was so annoying.

We we are having no kids, the youngest will be my 2 first cousins who are 16 & 19, we included everyone’s significant other, but otherwise did not give plus ones for single guests. FH and I also agreed that if a guest we thought was single was actually in a relationship and they asked, we would include them but not include random friends to just hang out.

So so annoying when my aunt texted me asking about the 16 year olds friend (clarified this was NOT a significant other). Like no. Sorry, you’re old enough to not need entertainment like that, and it’s $200/person. 🤦🏼‍♀️
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Expert October 2020
Haley · on July 18, 2019 at 1:12 PM
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I LOLed when I read that honestly hahaha
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Master December 2019
Courtney · on July 18, 2019 at 9:47 PM
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LMAO Look if I'm the reason you believe in love again then you got the wrong Disney princess.
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Legend June 2019
Melle · on July 19, 2019 at 12:50 AM
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Yea there's people who think everyone just gets invited to a wedding aha
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Devoted October 2019
Tbear · on July 19, 2019 at 7:04 AM
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Ok, you're my new favorite!
Come sit next to me! lol
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Master December 2019
Courtney · on July 20, 2019 at 10:28 PM
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I would be glad to!
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Expert August 2020
Jodie · on August 16, 2019 at 4:36 PM
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I am so tired of the "Am I invited? Where's my invite? Don't you like me anymore?" blah blah blah crap. I have finally just started telling people "Its our wedding and we are inviting those we want to have there. If you feel you need to be invited you can feel free to contribute to the cost of the wedding." It's probably rude, but at this point I stopped caring. Obviously people don't care about our feelings so I'm not going to bend over backwards to care about theirs. It is the one and only wedding I am going to have and I refuse to spend the day with people just because they are my great aunt twice removed on my fathers side that came to that funeral 11 years ago and said hello...If I haven't seen them or talked to them in the last 6 months they don't register as a person I need at my wedding. I refuse to be bullied into inviting people just so they don't have hurt feelings.
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