Hi ladies,
Hopefully you guys can help me not feel as bad. We are having a small wedding 50 ppl to be exact. I told my bridesmaids off the bat that nobody gets a plus one. There are a couple of bridesmaids tho who are married and the groom and I are both friends with them so they are on our list. So here’s the thing, I told my moh that her husband wasn’t invited and I even spoke to her about it cause I didn’t want there to be animosity because the other bridesmaids husbands are going. However, the groom and I are friends with them. So anyway, when I spoke to her she said that that’s fine and that it’s my wedding, however, now I’m hearing from one of my bridesmaids that she’s upset that he’s not invited. My moh’s husband can be extremely awkward and when she’s around him she tends to have to take care of him emotion wise which can send her into her own emotional spiral. So I’m trying to just allow her to have a night of peace and fun and not have to worry about anything. Has this happened to anyone? Like I’m pretty firm in my decision to not have him there, but also if she wasn’t ok with it why not tell me to begin with? I can’t tell her I know cause then I would be throwing my other bridesmaid under the bus. I’m just getting ready to just dump all my bridesmaids. I’ll take all suggestions and what to say to her to help her understand that I want her there but only her.
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