I am in a bit of a pickle. Our venue has a capacity of 165. I have a large family, between my mom and dad I have 6 uncles and 4 aunts and lots of cousins! This total is about 80 all together. My fiance and I made a combined list of friends of about 40. My fiance has one aunt, one uncle and a sister. So I had thought that 35 guests for the family members and family friends would be enough. His mother gave me a guest list of about 40 which was totally fine.
2 weeks ago I decided it was time to order Save The Date cards as I had not heard an update in over four months regarding any additional guests from my fiance's mother. Last night I got a text from her explaining she wanted to add more guests. I nicely told her we are already over capacity and I was working off her original list of 40. She is now upset with me and believes she deserves more guests.
Has any one had a similar situation or advice?