Need advice! I'm planning my celebration, and I am currently planning to serve fish and also a salad with nuts. I have a cousin with a life-threatening allergy to both. My sister flagged it as an issue that I even have this stuff on the menu, but I said that we already have safe meals for her worked out with the caterer. But my sister said she won't even want to be around fish and nuts.
It is true that for all of my childhood, we didnt have fish or nuts at big family events. I guess I didn't really think about it. My immediate family are huge seafood people and love candied nuts.
I haven't asked my cousin yet because I don't know how to approach this. I don't think I should have to take something off of my menu because she doesn't want to be around it, that seems a bit much. But I also don't want to hurt feelings or cause drama. And of course I want her to be safe at the event if she comes. I'm afraid to ask her and she'll say "yeah take it off the menu or I won't come" and I won't know how to respond.
Any advice?
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