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Samantha
Dedicated April 2012

Guest bring their own drinks??

Samantha, on March 18, 2011 at 6:05 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 26

We honestly won't have the money to buy a lot of alcohol for our reception, however we will be buying 2-3 kegs of beer. Would it be wrong of us to ask our guess to bring their own alcohol...I'm talking hard liquor and other things besides beer? (I realize everyone have and opinion but please keep it...

We honestly won't have the money to buy a lot of alcohol for our reception, however we will be buying 2-3 kegs of beer. Would it be wrong of us to ask our guess to bring their own alcohol...I'm talking hard liquor and other things besides beer?

(I realize everyone have and opinion but please keep it polite!)

26 Comments

  • bert's girl
    Master April 2012
    bert's girl ·
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    I have a good idea. What about having a special mixed drink fountain? I went to a few weddings where they rented a fountain and you put whatever mixed drink you want in there. I went to one with fuzzy navels and the other had margaritas with limes in a bowl and a plate with salt. It was really nice. I am considering do this myself. I am just waiting for the call from the banquet manager to see if she permits this. They rent them out at a place calle "action party rentals" in my area, maybe you have something similar in your area?

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  • Jen P.
    Master January 2012
    Jen P. ·
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    I don't think it's wrong to let your guests know that if they would like a hard drink, they are welcome to bring their own booze... I don't think anyone is demanding people to bring it here- I definately wouldn't put it in your invites, just let people know as you talk to them about the wedding that you'll have beer and that hard liquor is welcome, but not required.

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  • K
    Super October 2011
    Katrina ·
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    When people ask me if there is anything they can do to help or if there is anything they can bring I have been saying bring what ever you like to drank so that way I am not telling them, they are offering.

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  • Leyila
    VIP August 2011
    Leyila ·
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    I know that etiquette says you aren't supposed to put in the invites that people are supposed to bring their beer, but my sister put an insert for her wedding that the she was having a potluck dinner and that the guests could bring a dish to share with everyone and drinks of their own choice. I am also having a semi-formal wedding. I am providing bbq style finger foods but I will take after my sister and put a slip in my invites that the guests may bring a beverage of their choice for the reception. In today's economy I think a little bucking of tradition and etiquette is not too bad.

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  • ♥ Soon 2B Mrs. Lewis ♥
    Expert May 2011
    ♥ Soon 2B Mrs. Lewis ♥ ·
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    @leyila- Im right with your sister, I made up a cute little insert and slipped it in with the map in the invitation. I dont think most people mind, as long as they are warned!

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    Just Said Yes August 2024
    Addison ·
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    I think that providing just beer or wine is not only perfectly acceptable but a good idea. You could either end up with a $20,000 bar bill or if you limit it some people will drink a lot and others might not even get to have a drink. Like some other people sad 3 kegs of beer is a lot of beer. Getting two kegs and a case or two of wine might be better. Depending on how many people you have.
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