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Just Said Yes July 2016

Grooms parents walking down the aisle ?

Samantha , on May 18, 2016 at 2:46 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

Hey ladies so my wedding isn't really traditional my ceremony is in a chapel & im having bridesmaids & groomsmen now my question is my mother is walking down the aisle with my brother & my dad with me , & I don't know if I should have my fiancé parents walk down the aisle as well ? do people do that or not really I just want them to feel included because his mother is putting money into the wedding as well but my mother is more at the end ? What do you ladies think ??

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Latest activity by ENG, on March 10, 2017 at 12:39 PM
  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    Nothing here seems too non-traditional. I'd have them walk down before your mom and brother.

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  • Zaz
    Master October 2016
    Zaz ·
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    In my case, FH's parents will be the first of our VIP guests to walk down the aisle, followed by my mom (escorted by my big brother). Then comes the wedding party, then me with my dad.

    It was important to FH and I to include all of our parents this way. We also discussed it with both sets of parents beforehand, because not everyone wants to walk down the aisle. Have you spoken with FH or his parents about this at all?

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  • ElleW.
    Expert October 2015
    ElleW. ·
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    At most weddings I have been to, including my own, the groom escorted his mother down the aisle with his dad following behind as part of the processional. Then the bride's mother is escorted by a GM or male relative.

    Eta: Bride's mom, not parents.

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  • Jess
    Dedicated May 2016
    Jess ·
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    Of course they should; otherwise the message sent is that your parents are more important than your FH's parents.

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  • MrsND
    Master November 2016
    MrsND ·
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    My FH is very close to his parents and he will walk down with them both! This wouldn't change with or without money given.

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  • Melanie
    Expert June 2016
    Melanie ·
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    Yeah my FH's parents are totally walking down the aisle too. I thought that was normal?!

    FH will walk down by himself but FMIL and FFIL will walk down together.

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  • S&P
    Master January 2017
    S&P ·
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    Unless they don't want to I plan to have FFIL and FSMIL walk down followed by FMIL and FSFIL then my mom and whoever she wants to escort her

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  • Almost-Mrs.Saraza
    Expert August 2016
    Almost-Mrs.Saraza ·
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    My FMIL is walking my FH down the aisle as she is "giving him away". FFIL is FH's best man. I honestly come to think about it have no idea how this may work but we will wing it Smiley smile

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  • Leanne
    VIP April 2017
    Leanne ·
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    My sons are escorting our mothers down the aisle and my ffil will be with my niece who will be just under a year.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    Our grandmothers (4) and parents of the groom had their own processional song. 3 grandmothers were escorted by a groomsman each; the 4th by her future grandson in-law. The MOG walked with the FOG.

    Then the officiant, my groom, and his two best men entered at the beginning of the bridal party song, down the right side aisle. The rest of the bridal party walked in, down the center aisle. My mother and father walked with me, to a third song.

    My parents paid for everything, but I don't think that matters. The bride almost always enters last, although sometimes she walks with her husband, meets him halfway, walks alone, etc. (I've been singing at weddings for over 10 years).

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  • Mrs.T_618
    VIP June 2016
    Mrs.T_618 ·
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    Oops - I had my mom seated first. Thanks for educating me!

    We don't have much of a wedding party, so everyone's processing.

    FH will escort his mom,

    FH's sisters will escort his dad (his parents are divorced),

    my brother will escort my mom,

    Best Man will walk by himself,

    Man of Honor will walk by himself, and

    my dad will walk me!

    Edited: to clarify

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  • OurAdventureBegins
    VIP October 2016
    OurAdventureBegins ·
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    Traditional processions seem to be happening less and less. Design it however you want with the people that mean the most to you

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  • Lbee59
    Super June 2016
    Lbee59 ·
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    I'm going to have my fh walk my nom down the aisle. Then he'll walk his mom down while his dads behind him.

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  • Kimi
    Master August 2016
    Kimi ·
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    I'm still working on the order of this.

    FFIL with his SO

    FSS with one gmom

    FFIL with his mom

    FSFIL with FMIL (MOG)

    BM with MOB

    We don't really want SO as part of the processional, but if she actually shows up and is not treated as family, she'll make a scene. It's easier to do this than deal with that. But, FH does not look at her as a parental figure, so she is not being placed in the traditional order, otherwise, both gmom's would cone before her. Also, gmom's helped raise FH (she didn't), so I want them to be seated while the "mom's song) is playing, which is Carrie Underwood's Mama's Song.

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  • Sangele
    Master April 2016
    Sangele ·
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    We did this: DH walked his grandma down the aisle then walked back and was escorted by both of his parents. The bridal party walked in together and I was escorted by my mom and brother.

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  • ENG
    Super April 2017
    ENG ·
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    Need to bump this thread because I'm having the hardest time figuring this out!

    FH's parents are divorced and he is much closer with his Mother than he is his Father (and we barely know his dad's new wife). Do we need to include them in the processional or is it typically just the groom's mother? If we include both sets of parents does his Father go first, kicking off the processional because his mom should walk down in front of my mother as a sign of honor? If his father is already seated with his wife would we also have his mom's husband seated so that only the moms are escorted solo?

    Right now we have:

    Walking:

    FH's Dad & his wife

    FH's Mom & her husband

    My Brother escorting my mother

    Groom/Groomsmen

    Bridesmaids

    Me & My Dad

    Should it be:

    Father, Father's Wife, Mother's Husband already seated

    Walking:

    FH's Mother

    My Mother

    Groom/groomsmen

    Bridesmaids

    Me & My dad

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