Give me the Ins and Outs

Hi guys ,
After a long road of drama and more drama me and FH have made a final decision. We are canceling our wedding and we are going to have a courthouse wedding . It has taken me a week or so to even get on this appt but I do finally have peace about the situation . I think it is what’s best . Plus me and FH can save money for our new future together and we can plan the vowel renewal of our dreams later .
So I’m on here today to get understanding on what are some things I can do to make the courthouse still special . I can tell my FH wanted a wedding and I hate all of this has come to this. Regardless I want the day to still be special . We are still wearing our outfits bc I already bought my dress and I can’t get any returns plus I thought I deserved to wear the dress of my dreams still . I am still getting a bouquet bc I’ve already booked my florist with a non refundable deposit . We are also planning to have like a small family dinner after the ceremony somewhere . I’m wondering what else should I do? thank goodness I never sent my Save the dates but I did get Calligraphy done on all the envolops so I was thinking I could still use them to send out “we got married “ ? What do you guys think . Anyway just give me all your ideas you may have . Things I haven’t thought about etc . Me and FH are moving in together for the first time after the wedding so I need to buy home stuff and if you guys have any store suggestions that would be great !! If you have done this before or doing it this year how do you feel ? Just let me know anything !! Thanks guys !!