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M
Savvy June 2017

Gifts, what were your expectations?

M, on August 5, 2017 at 3:08 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

We had a small destination wedding in California and invited 60 people. About half of those attended. I didn't send out invitations with the intention of getting a gift from everyone, but was surprised as to who sent one and who didn't. My husband and I specifically didn't invite people so they...

We had a small destination wedding in California and invited 60 people. About half of those attended. I didn't send out invitations with the intention of getting a gift from everyone, but was surprised as to who sent one and who didn't. My husband and I specifically didn't invite people so they wouldn't feel obligated for a gift.

For all those who have had their wedding, who did you receive a gift from? Just people in attendance? Did the majority of those who declined still acknowledge the wedding in some way? Did you have expectations as to who would acknowledge the wedding?

I am asking because I always thought an invitation required some sort of acknowledgement; ie card, call, text, gift. My husband is more offended that certain people didn't respond to the RSVP or acknowledge the wedding. Thoughts?

24 Comments

  • J
    Beginner December 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    I agree with the first comment

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    I think it is unreasonable to expect everyone who got an invite to acknowledge your wedding.

    Yes, etiquette suggests they should. But, a lot of people are oblivious to etiquette or what can be considered rude. Roll your eyes at it, then move on.

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  • Rachel
    VIP September 2018
    Rachel ·
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    I would be bothered by anyone who didn't RSVP or acknowledge the wedding too. You can address it if you like but you probably won't get a satisfactory answer and it will feel uncomfortable. Perhaps you will get card or congratulations next time you see these people?

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