I need advice about gifts. Originally, we had decided not to have flower girls or ring bearers and we are having an adult only reception. My MOH and I have been friends since middle school and she has two daughters (3 and 7). Long story short, MOH has browbeat and guilted (LOTS of guilt) me into having her daughters as flower girls because she doesn't want to tell them no.
Now she's hinting about what gifts I should get her daughters for being flower girls. We are on a super tight budget (hence the adult only reception) and I'm of the mindset that my gift to the girls is letting them be flower girls in the first place. Am I being petty? Thoughts?