Dedicated June 2019

Getting married in 2 weeks and surprisingly calm

Laura, on June 10, 2019 at 12:03 PM Posted in Planning 0 8
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Getting married in 12 days and I'm surprisingly not freaking out or spazzing. I'm sure the weekend of I'll be pacing wildly. I even had only one wedding nightmare too and it was about my online friend who is like a brother saying he decided not to come to my wedding. I keep hearing how many brides get so nervous and have many nightmares about shoes, food, etc but that isnt the case for me. Am I just weird? What has been your worst pre-wedding nightmare?


  • J
    Master 0000
    Judith ·
    Suddenly at 3 weeks out, we had nothing left to do. People would ask my parents if I was really nervous. I heard he was telling people I had moved to the planet if smiling happiness. It is true, nothing would have bothered me.
  • Cher Horowitz
    Rockstar December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·

    I don't think what you're feeling is weird! You're at that odd time where there's not much left to plan and you're just counting down!

  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
    No not at all. I'm getting married this Saturday but for the past weeks I've just been calm.i think it's due to me adopting this attitude that not everything is going to go as planned but it'll all come together anywah
  • Soon2Bmrsp
    VIP May 2019
    Soon2Bmrsp ·

    I was nervous the day of up until we did the first look and then I was calm and hubby was nervous. we did alot of pictures before the ceremony and I could barely smile, my nerves got the best of me

  • Michaela
    Expert May 2020
    Michaela ·
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    That truly sounds wonderful lol

  • Gen
    Master June 2019
    Gen ·

    The night before my wedding I slept horribly... from 12:45am to 4:45am. Then was awake for hours trying to fall back... I drifted from 8am until 9:15am and during that hour and 15 mins is when I had THE most stressful wedding dream ever! I totally am not one to stress over details either, but my nightmare was that I woke up and it was the morning of my wedding, and it was raining so hard outside that it was flooded outside the hotel and we couldn't get out, and none of our guests could get in. Then my bridesmaids were there but there was one girl who I did not recognize at all, and I was told she was one of my best friends and a bridesmaid but I had no idea who she was! And one of my bridesmaids was wearing this horrible green and pink floral dress and claiming it was her bridesmaid dress (which it obviously wasn't lol). Throughout the entire thing I kept fading in and out of consciousness, and everyone in the dream was telling me that it was because I had slept so horribly that I kept fading in and out of awareness. HA.

    I woke up to my alarm at 9:15am feeling BEYOND stressed out hahaha. But once I caught my breath and realized it was a dream, and I was on 5 hours of sleep but I was FULLY conscious and aware, the rest of the day went perfectly!

  • Rachel
    Expert September 2019
    Rachel ·

    Between wedding, toddler, and buying a house, I know for certain that I've had them, but thank God I am too exhausted to remember them!

  • M
    Super June 2019
    Mary ·
    No you're not weird. I'm getting married Sunday and I'm calm too. I have. Ever understood the freaking out. I'm like if we have forgotten it then it wasn't important and we have been together for forever so nothing is going to change. Family start coming in tomorrow and I'm looking forward to it

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