Gatherings increasing in ny for phase 4

Great news gatherings for Ny will be 50 people by phase 4. We have cut our guest list for this years ceremony but somehow the numbers keep going up we have about 34 guests coming they are the closest family and friends and then everyone else will be zoomed in. We postponed our reception to next year and people are getting confused like your having a wedding this year and next and I’m trying to explain to them we’re having the reception/party next year so everyone can come and I’m saving my dress for that. Main reason is because we couldn’t get our money back from the venue but we still wanted to celebrate with everyone so my question is do you think people will want to come next year to still celebrate even though they have come this year and or watched it on zoom? I don’t want people thinking I’m having a million weddings I truly wanted one wedding with everyone but because that couldn’t happen this year this is what we have to do. What are your guys thoughts on this?