If one of your friends were getting married on your birthday would you go? It’s a little bit of a long story. So she was originally supposed to be getting married in May, then moved it due to covid and now it’s on my birthday. I usually wouldn’t care because birthdays for the most part have been awful for me but my fiancé wanted to change that and already planned out this weekend getaway for us and it’s been planned well before she changed her date. She’s a good friend, I’m not sure how to proceed.
Edit: for context, I’m not in the wedding because they decided they aren’t having bridesmaids or groomsmen. She’s having her sister as her maid of honor and he’s having his brother as his best man and that’s it. But she will be a bridesmaid in my wedding next year.
