A friend of ours who is a formerly ordained minister (Methodist I think? I forget) is getting "re-ordained" (internet or something, we don't have it all figured out yet) in order to perform our ceremony.
This never really occurred to me because I always thought I'd be married by a Pastor who'd wear his church vestments. Now that's not happening.
So, would it be okay for me to have him wear something specific (i.e. a style of suit, ala on the same order of telling the groom/groomsmen what to wear)? I mean, I'm not all about having him -match- the wedding party or anything like that, I'd just prefer if it didn't entirely clash. I also am not so controlling that I need to tell him -exactly- what to wear, but I'd like a little advance warning, or at least know I'm not being totally rude if I ask for something.
Thanks for the input! Like I said, something that never occurred to me that I might have to consider.