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Just Said Yes April 2018

Friday Reception?

LaKisha, on March 28, 2017 at 11:47 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 32

Hey everybody! I recently got engaged and my fiancé and I plan on getting married at City Hall in San Francisco. Unfortunately, City Hall is only open Monday through Friday so it has to be a weekday wedding. We only plan on having about 18-20 people present for the ceremony and 100-120 people for the reception. What are everyone's thoughts on a Friday reception? Otherwise, I'd have to get married on Friday, take the 18-20 guests out to dinner then host the reception on Saturday. Thoughts? Personal experience?

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Latest activity by Amber, on March 29, 2017 at 9:31 PM
  • FutureMrs.BMD
    Savvy October 2017
    FutureMrs.BMD ·
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    My wedding is all going to be on a Friday! I vote-go for it!

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  • StealingtheKredel
    Super July 2017
    StealingtheKredel ·
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    I am getting married on a Friday . I see no problem with it.

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  • mrsanda
    VIP March 2017
    mrsanda ·
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    Friday weddings are the best. I am biased but it was amazing for people to start their weekend off with one extra day!

    Also don't do a reception for those who cannot attend the ceremony.

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  • Miranda
    Dedicated November 2018
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    Friday weddings are actually pretty common since venues are usually cheaper on a Friday or sunday.

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  • Wellthennnn
    Dedicated June 2018
    Wellthennnn ·
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    Hi! I'm new here.

    But my ceremony and reception are on a Friday (it saved us a thousand plus I feel we can truly have a good night without people worrying about a Sunday service to get too)

    Anyways I'm a go for it. I have also been invited to a reception that we weren't invited to the ceremony. I do admit it was a little weird....because we didn't know it was reception only. Not a huge deal though.

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  • T
    Savvy October 2017
    Tiffany ·
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    Hey, my fiance and i will go to city hall on Friday and get out papers and everything then have the ceremony and reception on saturday. Then we will mail in the papers once everything is complete with the pastor. I believe that's how it works in Indiana

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    Just Said Yes September 2017
    Theresa ·
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    My wedding and Reception are going to be on a Friday. It's your day so you need to do what makes you happy. Those that care for you it won't matter what day if the week it is.

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  • Future Mrs Bito
    Dedicated August 2018
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    We're having the ceremony and reception on a Friday -- saves money, and we get to spend more time with family & friends (esp out of towners) over the weekend. Plus, more time to relax and recover!

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  • Future Stogner
    Expert June 2017
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    Go for it! SF city hall is beautiful.

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  • C
    Dedicated October 2017
    Carolyn ·
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    Sauce is near there in Hayes Valley and they have a big back room. Might be a good spot for the smaller group. Smiley smile

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  • Juliet
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    Fridays are pretty popular now. I see no problem with it.

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  • Grace
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    Friday weddings are just fine, but usually they happen a little later in the evening so that the local guests may come after work and not need to take the day off. Also, tiered weddings are not cool. I understand that city hall venues cannot host full 100+ people parties but I would be turned off by only being invited to a reception following a ceremony that had literally just occurred. It comes off as very gift grabby.

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  • HappilyHauser
    Devoted October 2017
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    Fridays usually go over great! Some people even like it because it just starts their weekend off a little early!

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  • Orchids
    Master March 2018
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    That sounds beautiful! SF city hall is lovely, and so close to so many picturesque spots! My cousin was married there recently.

    Fridays are pretty popular lately, and I think you'll be just fine with a Friday event.

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  • BridalBethany
    Expert April 2017
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    You'll probably hear several people tell you not to invite guests to the reception that aren't invited to the ceremony. I don't see why? I've seen this so many times and never thought anything about it. Some people will just never be happy no matter what you do, keep that in mind! There is nothing wrong with the Bride & Groom wanting an intimate ceremony with only their family and a celebration with others afterwards. There is also nothing wrong with a Friday wedding. People will have to request off work and such but they will because they love you and want to be there for your big day!

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
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    You have to host the people that are coming to the ceremony immediately after. So in essence, you will be hosting two parties. Do you really want to do this? I'm having a City Hall wedding too, we are taking our 15 out for dinner after. No other parties.

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
    melanie ·
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    We are doing a Friday

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  • KELLY
    Dedicated September 2017
    KELLY ·
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    Friday!

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  • T
    Dedicated November 2017
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    Option 1 - Continue with your plan. I love San Francisco City Hall! I think Friday is fine.

    Option 2 - Have the ceremony on Friday and take them out to dinner. Then have reception on another time, preferably a few months later.

    Option 3 - Have an intimate ceremony and reception.

    I've been to both options 2 and 3. With option 2, the guests invited only to the reception all understood the couple sort of eloped with family/best friends witnessing the ceremony. Everyone had a great time! You can also make the event quite casual if you want.

    Option 3 is my personal favorite! There is so much details in those weddings and love. I always feel so honored to be invited to an intimate wedding.

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  • Jamie
    Super September 2017
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    I wanted a Friday wedding, but one of my BM wouldn't be able to make it. I loved the idea of having the weekend to cooperate and such. I say go for it!

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