So, Im now a bridesmaid and the bride recently sprung it on all of the bridesmaids (She told us Tuesday the wedding is Saturday) that we will be using her hairstylist and we have to pay for it. Originally she simply gave us a pic and said to get our hair done that way. Great I thought, I can do that..I thought. When I told her that I already planned to do my hair myself (in the style she wants) she told me using her stylist was "not up for debate". It is an updo, a very simple updo. I do hair for family, friends, and highschool girls for prom and senior pics etc so I know I can do the style. I even did my own hair for my wedding!!
I offered to do a trial run and prove to her I could do it, but she is adamamt about me using this particular stylist. I have never let anyone but my mother (who completed cosmotology school) curl or put heat in my hair. I informed her of this and offered to do the curl prep for my own hair and let the stylist complete the chignon. She has not responded...