Stephanie
Just Said Yes September 2021

For family or for you?

Stephanie, on June 25, 2020 at 3:12 PM

Posted in Planning 24

So you put all this time and energy and money into planning this one day. Are you planning on what you both (as the couple) want or what you know your family would not complain about? For example : BBQ from a food truck or a buffet instead of sit down platted dinner.

So you put all this time and energy and money into planning this one day. Smiley heart

Are you planning on what you both (as the couple) want or what you know your family would not complain about?

For example : BBQ from a food truck or a buffet instead of sit down platted dinner.


24 Comments

  • Lena
    Devoted May 2021
    Lena ·
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    What we want with our families in mind. We're the first children to get married in both families and they're as excited as we are. Plus weddings to me are all about family and coming together. Smiley smile

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  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
    Angel ·
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    We did exactly what we wanted and we were very big on budgeting and kept it at a bare minimum (compared to others at least)... so my grandpa offered to pay for the whole thing, which we're super thankful for. And thankfully, my family is not controlling and never tells me what to do.

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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle ·
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    The décor and energy of our wedding were all us. Our menu was for the guests. We caved to our mothers and had a dove release.

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  • Jacquelene
    Dedicated October 2021
    Jacquelene ·
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    We're paying for this party so we're having what we want. There are things we're considering over others (i.e - despite the coffee filling being delish, we'll opt for another cake filling) but the choices are all ours.

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