For Better or For Worse? (hashtag)

So my future last name (Bender) sounds a lot like “Better” and I’m trying to take advantage of that as a pun for a hashtag. #ForBenderOrForWorse has a decent amount of posts already, but I realized the phrase has a lot of variations, like #ForBenderOrWorse or #ForWorseOrForBender. Do these sound awkward? I can’t think of what the “normal” variation of the phrase is. The other alternative is to add “2020” at the end of one of them to ensure no one else uses it. What are your thoughts?