I have a flower girl in the wedding who will be 6. Do I sit her at the head table with the bridal party, or sit her with her family? She is my FH neice, and I am also having her mom, my FSIL in the wedding. My reception site said that the kids always sit at the regular tables, but I thought she would be with us. I also thought about maybe having a seat for her at the head table where she can eat, then have a chair at the regular tables with her dad, baby sister, grandparents, etc. What do you think?