Flats instead of heels ?

Yes, you can wear whatever you want

I'm wearing flats. We're the same height.

I really really do not want to wear heels. If I can't find any flats I like I'd like to keep the heel height at 1" or so. I've found tons of great shoes on Pinterest but they are all out of stock. Doh!! Here is an inspiration picture.

I also LOVE these ones.

I want flats! I'm pretty average height, so I could still wear heels, but I'm at an outdoor venue and I don't want to worry about my heels sinking.

I have the heel version but thought about how much it'll be ruined at a garden ceremony so I decided to also get the flat version. Still comfortable (I'm way more used to heels) and matches my dress!

I'm wearing custom vans designed like these

I am wearing flat sandals. I think it's just fine!

Got these flats they are soooo comfy!

I'm 5'9 and walk like an injured animal when I'm in heels.. we got married on the beach and I had on beautiful sparkly flat sandals.. best decision ever!

If you're worried about people seeing your shoes and judging you for them (I haven't read all the comments) but you could always bring a pair of heels with you for picture moments like the garter toss if that's something you're doing. If you're not worried about that, then wear the flats and be comfortable. It's going to be a long day standing on your feet, with the walking and first dances and going around and talking to everyone and dancing... Be comfortable.

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