A few days ago I posted about my bridesmaid flaking, Well I found out today (by messaging the etsy woman who made my BM dresses) that this bridesmaid hasn't even purchased her dress when she told me she ordered it over 2 months ago. I'm super upset I have tried reaching out to this BM to see what's going on with her and she just isn't responding to me. We are very good friends, or we was until my co-ed bach party where she bailed the night before and left us paying her half so my other BM didn't have to pay for her half and their half for the cabin. I never was upset with her because she said "she couldnt get off work for 3 days in a row" I was fine, but then the next week she went for 8 days to the beach with another friend.. She's not talked to me since. I've tried countless times to spend time with her..nothing she's short when I message her, ignores when I ask about getting together.. Should I just NOT count on her being a BM?
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