We aren’t doing a first look. I think it’s a cute option and also can be easier for time sake for some, but ultimately I’m a sucker for a good tradition. I don’t want the groom to see me until the ceremony!
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Same! I considered it but fiance would rather see me walking down the isle. I think it's a little more of an intense feeling that way, too. A first look almost seems like you're just seeing each other dresses up. I don't think the feeling would hit me as hard. But, if you need to finish setting up and getting things done together before the wedding, a first look is just easier.
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Yea. Not really complaining. It wasn't a must but FH spoke his peace and I'm ok with it. I respect his decisions whenever he makes them cause he doesn't have much to say in general lol
We are doing a first look, mostly because we want to be able to enjoy some of cocktail hour. Also this gives us a chance to get way more pictures. We will be up in Yosemite for about 2 hrs before the wedding just taking pictures 😍
Traditional. But we are both taking photos with family and our wedding party separate before the ceremony and then after taking photos together. That way we aren't taking pics for too long during cocktail hour. We were both opposed to a 1st look. Just not our thing, no matter the time crunch.
I prefer traditional! My FH wants to do a first look to read our vows in private - which I'm completely against. It's important to me that the first time we see each other is when I enter for the ceremony, and to exchange our vows in front of our guests. Also, if we do the first look and exchange our vows at that time, my makeup will be RUINED. lol
I was open to first looking, so I asked my FH how he felt about having one. He was very adamant that he wanted to be surprised seeing me walk down the aisle. I wanted to give him that surprise, so traditional it is for us
1. It is a very intimate and private experience for the both of us. 2. I think it would give us time to let our emotions out and feel less nervous before seeing eachother at the altar. 3. I've heard from other people that it still doesn't take away the emotions of walking down the aisle.
4. Get our pictures done earlier and get to enjoy some appetizers and drinks from cocktail hour lol
My fiancé felt very strongly about not having a first look and I agreed with him, but we ended up agreeing on doing a first look after meeting with our photographer and finding out we would have to miss our cocktail hour to take photos if we do not take them beforehand.
We went with the first look - we thought about it for awhile because it was definitely a big decision. It was a great choice because my husband and I had a moment just to ourselves -- he was shaking he was so nervous. It really helped calm our nerves before walking down the aisle and we are so glad we did it. We both still cried when we saw each other at the ceremony and it did not take away from that moment either. It also allowed us to spend more time taking family portraits.
I initially thought about being traditional but after talking we're planning on doing a first look to help get the nerves out of the way, and what I am sure will be some ugly crying lol, as well as have a few private minutes together before we are married. We will have two photographers at that time so they can get both of us the moment we turn around, so nothing gets missed. It will also help get a lot of pictures out of the way, which is good as we are getting married in February and it will be cold. My sister did the more traditional route and that was just as special for her so it's really going to come down to what speaks to you the most. At the end of the day, both are special moments in their own way.
We're doing a first look and I'm SO excited for it. It will be a nice pause just for us between the stress of planning and making sure all the details have been taken care of, and the whirlwind of our ceremony and reception.
I think we'll also get better pictures/memories of the looks on our faces seeing each other for the first time with a first look than we would seeing each other for the first time as I walk down the aisle. And it doesn't hurt that doing a first look and most formal photos before the ceremony also means we'll be able to enjoy our cocktail hour and not have it run long and delay dinner for our guests!