First Look but no Inlaw pics?

I didn’t know how to word this title...

My FH and I are doing a first look because we want that moment to be private. This also saves us the time after the ceremony and we can get fun wedding party shots in too during this time.

i was talking to my photographer about timeline today and she mentioned also doing immediate family portraits before the ceremony. I was a bit taken back because, while I knew my mom would see me and I wanted to have a first look moment with my dad, I didn’t realize the whole family would see me including in-laws and grandparents.

I mentioned this and said that I wasn’t sure I wanted this and she was super flexible and said we could move those photos until after the ceremony.

Am I bring weird about not wanting another 10 people or so (step parents are included in all of this) to see me? Should I just get over it? I don’t do well in the spot light /with compliments so I want to avoid as much individual ooing and aweing.