I just had my very first "so kids aren't invited to the wedding...does that mean my kid can't come?" phone call. Oh it was so awkward! I felt really bad and almost caved and let my cousin bring his daughter but I knew I had to stand firm or I'd end up with like 20 kids at our wedding! He told me "Oh, I already told her she could come and she said she really wanted to go." 
My FH and I very firmly do not want kids there at all. There are many reasons for not having kids at weddings (just as some think there are many reasons to have them there) but aside from those reasons we just straight up don't want kids around on our day. But I feel like I was being guilt tripped and he's my family so of course I want to make him happy! Ugh, so awkward
