Fiance's last name on my invitation

It does not matter if they were trying to be "cute", it's not her name and if she prefers her own name right now, there's no reason she shouldn't correct it and put here actual name on the RSVP card. She is letting them know how she prefers to be addressed (there may be escort cards at the wedding) and there is nothing wrong with that. It's the same as if your name was spelled wrong on the envelope. You would correct it on the RSVP card to the right spelling and then the hosts would know how to spell it in the future.

Just put your real name down. If they happen to have assigned seating, you're going to want your card to be correct so that you know what you're looking for. It isn't that big of a deal and they won't be hurt by it. We got an invitation from my FH's cousin that said "Mr. and Mrs. FH's last name" but with a tiny note above that said "The future" and I RSVPd with our real names. I didn't think anything of it. They know we are getting married next year (cousin is a GM) but they wanted to celebrate that we ARE getting married and they know I'm dropping my last name.

I would love it, personally! I think they did it just being cute about you guys coming wedding. Its no big deal however you write it back I would think

I would put your real last name, if you're wedding isn't until after theirs. This name may appear on seating arrangements, favors, and other things. You need to be honest with them. Maybe even give them a call, or message them privately on facebook?

I got an invitation from FH cousin that was address to the Future Mrs...... it was sweet but I am pretty sure she didn't know what my last name was or even how to spell it. oh well. I thought it was cute and replied as the Future Mrs....

I did that with some people on my STDs. A friend is getting married a month after me so I put her FH last name on it instead of hers.

Just go with the flow Does it really matter in the long run about it? They will remember that someone corrected them, but no one will care about it in a few months if you just leave it alone.

Just go with the flow Does it really matter in the long run about it? They will remember that someone corrected them, but no one will care about it in a few months if you just leave it alone.