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Laura
Master October 2019

Fiancee having wedding nightmares?

Laura, on August 17, 2019 at 9:14 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 18

I've read a lot about wedding nightmares, but only the brides side. Have any of your future husbands or future wives had a nightmare? I ask because my fiancee kinda did.

Right now he's in the hospital, and he has been since this past Wednesday. He has some ongoing health issues, but this stay is different. He is having issues with his leg, he has what looks like a rash but isn't a rash covering his leg. He's been dealing with it for a couple of months and they are still trying to find out what it is. He had a dream/nightmare while there that he woke up and his leg was gone, and I was REALLY furious at him because he's a plumber and couldn't work anymore and there was no more money for the wedding. The wedding is nearly paid for one, and two he knows i'd never be mad over something like that. In the dream though we couldn't pay for the wedding. I made sure to assure him he's the most important thing, and not to stress. We still have to pay for the food and the DJ, but I told him I don't care if he wears jeans and we serve pizza. He knew I meant it and it helped.

I know it's stress from being in the hospital. So any of your grooms or brides having strange dreams?

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Latest activity by Suzie, on August 21, 2019 at 7:17 PM
  • W-K
    Super October 2019
    W-K ·
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    FH hasn’t had any anxious dreams about our wedding but he has had anxious dreams about me. Nothing specificity that I remember though. Stress in general sucks for dreams. I had one last night myself that FH was cheating on me and that I was demanding to see his phone.
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    Oh wow! I haven't had any like that. I had one where the wedding happened and I didn't remember any of it and had to look at pics to believe it happened...had one where I refused to pay for them to add a bustle to my dress because I thought it was to expensive and I was looking for decorative velcro for it lol

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
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    My fh has had one wedding nightmare but it was after I had told him about mine so it may have just been a conincidence that he did
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    I figure now that he had that one I probably will start since our wedding is only a little over 60 days away

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  • W-K
    Super October 2019
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    Oh dude my dreams are wild! Lol @ decorative Velcro. That’s hilarious!
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    My fiancee full out snort laughed when I told him that one LOL

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  • A
    VIP December 2020
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    FH hasn’t had a bad dream or even anxiety over getting married. I’m the one plagued with wedding nightmares, anxiety, cold feet and basically all the worries. Your FH might be having anxiety due to his current condition in the hospital and not working. I wouldn’t dwell on it too much, just do what you can to ease his mind about his concerns.
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    I was't dwelling on it, I was just seeing if other groom's were having dreams too. I'm positive it's just anxiety over being in the hospital

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  • Sasha
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Ah sorry to hear! Ya, I'm having some crazy dreams, not about the wedding, but about people i love dying. It's super scary. (I normally don't even remember any dreams.) I think your response was really nice/perfect.

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  • Keri
    Expert November 2019
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    Hope your FH makes a speedy recovery.

    He hasn't, but I have. I've dreamt that we overslept and completely missed our wedding!

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  • Catherine
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    My FH had a nightmare that he couldn't get his bow-tie tied, and he was trying to get in touch with me so I could do it, but my phone was off. He finally found someone to help him, but the guy ended up just stealing his wallet instead lol.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    I sadly have those dreams often. It's one of my greatest fears since I lost my mom when I was 14, my dad when I was 17, my grandma when I was 20, my cousin/best friend a few years ago, not mention several others.

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  • Laura
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    I worry about that with Rob! He's not what you'd call "punctual" lol

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  • Laura
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    Well that one was different lol

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  • Allie
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    FH hasn't had any nightmares, but has your FH gotten a diagnosis yet? It could be cellulitis?

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    That was what they initially thought, but after they took a culture they aren't sure. He had another doctors visit today. He's off work until they can figure out the issue. He's stressing because of the wedding. I told him not to, I said if we have to feed everyone pizza oh well! We already have most of the big stuff taken care of anyway. I reminded him that our being man and wife is the important thing, not what everyone eats

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  • Cassi
    Super October 2019
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    This is pretty common, a mix between wedding stress and the stress of whats going on and not having answers is definitely enough to induce several nightmares. After my sister passed away in January I had multiple nightmares that I was going to lose other important people to me before my wedding. I have also had dreams strictly about finances wedding related as well. It happens. You did the best thing and reassured him! Hopefully things lighten up and go smooth for y'all. Hope he starts feeling better soon!

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  • Suzie
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    My FH recently had a dream that I told him at our wedding I couldn’t do it and left him at the alter. I’m sure it happens all the time. It’s good that our guys are communicating about them!

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