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April 2019

Fiancé cheated...

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Lyla, on March 12, 2019 at 1:25 AM

Just found out my fiancé has been cheating and talking to multiple girls. Not sure if things were done but I saw it all and can’t forgive him. I just had my bridal shower and feel so embarrassed... I thought he was the one. He doesn’t know I know.. I just found out a day ago. We live together but don’t even know where to start.... I haven’t told anyone yet I’m really embarrassed to have to cancel the wedding that’s only 25 days away..

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Super June 2019
Eamsee · on March 12, 2019 at 3:51 PM
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I agree with this. Good and solid advice.
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Super December 2020
Sophie · on March 12, 2019 at 6:16 PM
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Communication is so important. Don’t feel embarrassed. Respect yourself and know your worth.
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Dedicated May 2019
Lynn · on March 12, 2019 at 6:20 PM
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Wow I am so sorry this is happening to you. I think you need to start by having a conversation with him. Only you know if you will be able to get pass this or not. Good luck with everything.
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April 2019
Lyla · on March 12, 2019 at 7:03 PM
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Thank you all for your kind words and advice. I’ve been feeling alone since I haven’t told anyone. I keep reminding myself it’s not my fault and I shouldn’t be embarrassed. I’m trying to figure out my living situation. I’ll be talking to him tonight.... I am nervous but I know it’s best to move on. We were together for 8 years and I thought I knew him but I’m not letting that hold me back... again thank you for being a support system.
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Devoted August 2018
Bluey8616f · on March 13, 2019 at 9:22 AM
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Don't be embarrassed. He should be embarrassed and ashamed!
I'm so sorry this is happening to you!
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VIP May 2019
Mandy · on March 13, 2019 at 4:20 PM
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I'm sure it's hard finding out that news. He should feel very embarrassed over his actions but it does put you in a hard place with the wedding so close.
Hopefully your talk went well last night and you have made some peace.
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Super March 2019
Alejandra · on March 13, 2019 at 5:49 PM
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Good Luck! Stay strong and you're in my thoughts.
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Dedicated October 2018
Deb · on March 14, 2019 at 6:52 PM
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I hope you are doing okay. Even though we don’t know each other my heart (and it sounds like many others) hurts for you and wish you the best.
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