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Beginner October 2019

fh oot family staying at our house

Stephany, on November 8, 2019 at 1:39 PM

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So two months ago I agreed to have my fiancé’s family stay in the house for the wedding. Two weeks ago I realized I made a mistake to have 9 ppl in our house with only two extra rooms and one full bathroom to share amongst them. My wedding is this Dec and I told my fiance that some will have to book...
So two months ago I agreed to have my fiancé’s family stay in the house for the wedding. Two weeks ago I realized I made a mistake to have 9 ppl in our house with only two extra rooms and one full bathroom to share amongst them. My wedding is this Dec and I told my fiance that some will have to book a hotel. He got mad and me and said “ Im just going to tell them not to bother coming for the wedding”. I fell bad since they are the only family he has, but I will feel uncomfortable since this is the first time Im meeting 7 of the 9 ppl. What if they stay during our wedding night ? I dont know what to do.. would I be rude if I talk to them personally?

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  • S
    Beginner October 2019
    Stephany ·
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    I just talked to him. After a looong conversation he agreed for me to book a hotel for us two on the wedding night. I think that should solve the problem. But my parents would be “ why did you let them kick you out of your own house!” 🤦🏻‍♀️
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  • S
    Beginner October 2019
    Stephany ·
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    👍🏻 Hotel for us two
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    Lol! Ugh. I get that. But I think dealing with my own parents' disappointment would be the lesser of two evils there.

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Or maybe they can stay at your house and YOU two can stay at a hotel. 😻

    We had a couple stay with us the week before our wedding and we were freakin’ exhausted from playing tour guide. I hadn’t seen them in 10+ years and they traveled from Europe so I couldn’t put them at a hotel. My mom drove them to our DW two nights early but the week of, wedding stress is at an all-time high... my hubby got sick and we had a “maybe we shouldn’t get married” blowout while packing up. You & your fiancé will be super stressed out. 😫
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  • S
    Beginner October 2019
    Stephany ·
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    Thanks everyone!!
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