Hey everyone! Hope you're all staying safe.
So my FH doesn't want to attend the rehearsal. He's a very private person & he mentioned that he wants some alone time the week of the wedding which I'm understanding of and okay with, however he doesn't want to attend the wedding rehearsal. Initially he didn't even want to have a rehearsal or rehearsal dinner. He said it wasn't needed but I convinced him that we need at least some type of run through because we have kids in the wedding, and our venue set up is different than most. He agreed to that, along with a mini dinner but now he doesn't want to attend the rehearsal. He said the DOC, myself and my mother can run the rehearsal. He's also the musician for the wedding as he will be playing the piano as everyone comes down the aisle including myself. I think he needs to be there , but he's saying he doesn't he think he should and that he can just have a recording of the music to give me. I've already asked him why but didn't get a good explanation. Is it really that big deal if he isn't there? I feel like it would be awkward but I think this is something so small to debate about. For those of you who had a rehearsal, did both of you attend the rehearsal?