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Monique
Master December 2019

fh aisle walk?

Monique, on June 12, 2019 at 1:42 PM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 26
Does anyone else’s fh want to walk down the aisle? My fh will be doing this but I also think maybe it is a little outside of the norm. It’s his wedding too so ultimately I want him to be able to do what he wants to do.

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Latest activity by Pirate & 60s Bride, on June 17, 2019 at 1:48 PM
  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    I think the officiant walks up to the front first and asks people to rise then the groom can come down the isle. Then the wedding party and parents and then the bride
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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
    Kelly ·
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    My husband walked but groomsmen didn’t. My husband was escorted by his 2 parents and 2 stepparents as that’s customary in the Jewish faith.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    My husband walked down the aisle with his dad and brother! In Jewish weddings it is actually traditional for the groom to walk down the aisle. The traditional Jewish order is:

    Officiant

    Grandparents of the bride

    Grandparents of the groom

    Groomsmen

    Best Man

    Groom, with mom and dad

    Bridesmaids

    Maid of Honor

    Bride, with mom and dad

    We kept to this order for the most part, except husband doesn't have a relationship with his mom and I don't have one with my dad, so he walked with his dad and brother and I walked with my mom and brother. Also my brother was our officiant lol, so my grandparents were first in the processional and after my brother walked down the aisle with me, he just spun around to officiate.

    My husband was so glad he walked down the aisle... his dad and brother were also so happy and honored to be included! Smiley smile

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Mine will walk down after all the wedding party does so he gets a moment for himself too.
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  • latasha
    VIP September 2019
    latasha ·
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    Lol this isn’t traditional in my culture but my FH is the type that everything you get I want to (he’s a jokester so sometimes he’s joking about these things) he has expressed that he also wants to walk down the aisle since I get a grand entrance 😂😂. I’m fine with it. Most weddings I’ve been to the groom and best man have walked from a side entrance and that’s how we knew the ceremony was starting. To give FH his grand entrance lol I think we will have the officiant announce him and then he can walk down the aisle.
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    The Jewish tradition is that the groom walks down escorted by his parents, and the bride walks down escorted by hers. It emphasizes both of them recognizing their families, rather than just the bride being "given away" by only her father.

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  • Melissa
    VIP October 2018
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    Mine walked down the aisle to escort his parents. He was the first one in (besides the officiant.)

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  • B
    VIP July 2017
    Becky ·
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    The way my venue was set up, H *had* to walk down the aisle lol - he followed the officiant and his GM followed him.

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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
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    Mine will be! Our ceremony space doesn't really have a "side entrance" so his only option really is to walk down the aisle but that is what he wants so it worked out great! He and our officiant will walk in together. Our officiant is a retired pastor and an old coworker of my FH so they know each other really well which is why he wants them to walk in together.

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  • F
    Devoted October 2019
    Future Mrs Wilson ·
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    My officiant is walking by herself.

    Then my fiance will be escorted by his kids down the aisle.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    First I would say not to worry about “the norm”. It’s your day so do whatever you want. My husband walked down the aisle with his aunt because his parents are deceased and it was his first wedding band my second. That was very important to him so we did it no matter what people might think. Enjoy your day.
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    I think it’s becoming more and more normal/traditional. My fiancé is walking in with his mom. He tried to say it was too weird but I pulled up his brothers wedding video on YouTube where he did the same thing and that settled that. My brother is a bridesman and he’ll walk in with my mother, so I think it’ll be really sweet.
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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    My FH originally didn't want to walk down the aisle. However, our Pastor suggested him and FH walk down the aisle together after the grandmothers and mothers are seated. So that is what we are going with. There isn't any one way of doing it. I've seen several different types of ceremonies where the groom / bridal party did different types of entrances.

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    This is part of the reason that my fh wants to walk down. His mom is deceased and dad is not in the picture enough for him to be close to him. He wants to walk with his aunt and have her hold a picture of his mom.
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  • Angerra
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    Angerra ·
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    My fiance will walk down the aisle as well! I like the idea and definitely wouldn't tell him no. He should have his moment as well. Also, our venue doesn't have a side entrance.
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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
    Monique ·
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    I did Not think about the side entrance thing...there is not one so I guess he is doing it regardless lol
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  • Angerra
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    Angerra ·
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    Exactly! We really have no choice lol.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I think that’s awesome! He should definitely do it!
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Why not? 😊 My hubby & I walked together.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I dont want my fiance walking in with my officiant... because she looks like me. Lol.
    We haven't gotten this far in the process, but if he wants to walk with his parents or come in the side, he's allowed to do whatever he wants. It's his wedding too.
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