Ready to get roasted since I've been reading that tiaras are considered "tasteless" or "tacky". For context, I am a first-generation Asian American woman who does not know all the US wedding norms. I know in America, people say to "wear what makes you happy", but I don't want people aghast at my choices haha. I still have a chance to save myself if it's generally seen as a social faux pas for a woman in her late 20s to be wearing something for "princesses" as I've read...haha
I wear hairbands at home to keep my hair out of my face and figured to pick something similar as it was more secure than a hair vine. I was in awe of how beautifully crafted this headpiece was and bought it impulsively. However, I later realized it was labeled as a "tiara". For context, I'm getting married at an Italy-inspired garden + vineyard so I won't be getting married in a grand church wearing an ornate ballgown with a perfected bun for this tiara. I am planning to have my long, black hair curled in a simple half-up, half-down style (no crazy braids, textures, or hair bumps). Have a photo of the dress and earrings to be judged for the whole outfit.
I'm ready to hear if this tiara won't age well...better to hear it before the wedding I suppose 
Here is the dress.
Here is the tiara I purchased not knowing the opinions around tiaras...
My sister usually gives honest feedback but her planning her own wedding next month and not wanting our styles to overlap may affect her feedback. I figured I'll hear brutally honest feedback more from an online forum lol
Thanks for reading folks and appreciate any and all feedback! Give it to me!
