Feeling invisible and insignificant when dealing with vendors

Hello WW community,


I was just wondering if anyone else has been experiencing less-than-inspiring interactions with their wedding vendors. I am getting the feeling that my vendors are so busy that my business is not important to them. I get that they have a lot going on, but I’m spending a lot of money and I feel like I’m being brushed off constantly.
Just as an example, the company that I am renting tables, chairs, etc. from also does florals. I thought I’d make things easier by using them for my flowers. My fiancé and I met with the florist over two months ago. He said he would send me a proposal within two weeks and I still have nothing. I have sent multiple follow-up emails, only to be brushed off with “Oh sorry, he’s been really busy with back-to-back weddings”. I don’t think this is really an acceptable excuse to keep me waiting on a simple quote for over two months. It’s really stressing me out because I am now two months out from my wedding, I have no confirmation that I will even be getting flowers, and every other florist in town is already booked by now. I have been nothing but patient and understanding with them. I wouldn’t dare tell them how awful their customer service has been because I don’t want to screwed. But, I’m just really bothered by the whole thing. My fiancé and I can’t even afford a honeymoon and this vendor (that I’ve already paid a deposit to for the rentals) is acting like my money is worthless.
If you made it this far, thanks for reading my rant. I hope no one else is being put down and brushed off in their wedding planning like I am.