Hi All! I have only been engaged for a month and I am already ready to throw in the towel on having a wedding. We have not booked anything just started looking for venues and vendors to get ideas on the amount of money we will have going in to this. From the first week of my engagement, my Dad and Step mom made it clear that they do not want to help with my wedding and would prefer us do separate weddings so they don't have to see my mom (my parents have been divorced for 20+ years and my dad still can't grow up and be near my mother). I have been working with my mom on everything and she has been amazing with helping me with everything she possibly can. I am trying to keep things cordial and invite my dad and step mom to be apart of planning everything but they are snarky and rude every time I say my mom will be there as well, and then they just don't respond and ignore me instead of being apart of anything. I don't know if I am just being selfish about it or over dramatic but it's only the first month of this and it's already hell. What are some suggestions you all might have on dealing with parents or just eloping and doing a party?
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