Feeling disappointed

It can be frustrating thinking of the number of declines, Try to focus on those that can make it. I know we had a couple declines I thought would come but could not make it. It was depressing at first but sometimes people have obligations like kids team sports, dance recitals etc. I know when my DH niece was in gymnastics if she missed a competition she is off the team. Its BS if you ask me since she was 10 but thankfully our wedding fell on a weekend with no competitions.

The less the people the less the drama more food is better than not enough. Your parents his parents. Sister and Brothers. All bridesmaid cooperating . Don't worry it's ok Long as the people close to you make. People who love you will travel to the moon and back. As brides we have to concentrate on getting married. Keeping a marriage happy and healthy.

I can definitely relate to this. My dad and my cousin were my only blood relatives at my wedding; all my aunts/uncles/other cousins sent their regrets. Even if the reasons are valid, it still hurts to feel like you're not a priority for people who you love.

Remember that it's okay to be disappointed. Have a glass of wine, let yourself have a good cry, and then try to focus on the people who ARE coming. You will still have a wonderful day, surrounded by people who love you and are happy for you.

Thank you so much ladies, you are all right. There were actually several that i didn't expect to come because it's a big expense to fly and stay and they are still coming! So yes, I'll focus on them and the reason they are coming and just be relieved that there are declines because we certainly don't want more than 100 guests! Lol

Traveling can be hard for weddings, especially if any of these folks have younger children. Don't take it personally. I'm sure they'd love to be there if they could, but have other commitments or reasons they can't. I think you've got the right attitude...enjoy your day with those who are able to make it!

I understand and agree with those above. Focus on those ppl who can be there and enjoy your special day. We experienced something similar with fh's side of the guest list.

We invited almost 250 and had 148 at our wedding. It hurt that some people couldn't be there - but there's nothing you can do about it. Try to enjoy the people who can be there, and remember you're getting married which is the important part!

I am the opposite when I get a decline I do a happy dance. I am putting the extra money towards more booze. The people who decline it's their loss. I hope thinking of all the money you're saving will make you smile...even a little

We have received declines and fb messages that say people aren't coming, it's disappointing but we are trying to focus on the people who can make it. At this point, my FHs sisters haven't even responded, but we have several weeks left before we need counts in.

What's important is that the people u love and care about and that love and care about will be there to share your day.

Concentrate on the positive and enjoy ur day.

We are wedding twins