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swfan2016
Devoted November 2017

Feeling disappointed by my friends

swfan2016, on September 11, 2017 at 2:19 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

So my future in laws are throwing us a couple's shower this weekend...this was totally unexpected and we feel blessed that they even offered to do so. They asked me to send a list of just my closest friends to invite (not every friend on our wedding guest list), so I wanted my 3 childhood friends...

So my future in laws are throwing us a couple's shower this weekend...this was totally unexpected and we feel blessed that they even offered to do so. They asked me to send a list of just my closest friends to invite (not every friend on our wedding guest list), so I wanted my 3 childhood friends and their hubbies and kids, my 2 college best friends and then I decided to invite 1 girl that I previously worked with. I also have no extended family in town, so we just invited my parents and siblings.

The 2 college besties live a few hours away and likely can't come, 2 of my childhood friends have other plans and the third doesn't want to bring her kids without her husband. Thank God the old coworker is going to come, but it looks like she is the only one. My own family won't likely come, except for my mom, because of a sports tournament. We don't know if any of my fiance's friends are coming because no one has RSVP'd. I feel so embarrassed I could cry!

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  • swfan2016
    Devoted November 2017
    swfan2016 ·
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    Thanks for the encouragement everyone!! This definitely made me feel better.

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    Dedicated October 2017
    Veronica ·
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    No one is coming to my shower either ! Even the girl I threw two baby showers for and my fh bff is a couplegot married last week. He did their photography for free, I threw her a shower, they borrowed all of our wedding decor and used a bunch of our wedding idea before our date. I don't understand either. I'm didspaojnted too. No one was going to throw us a shower until myfh mom was like... Why on Earth had no one thrown y'all a shower , I guess I'll do it? Only thing I can think is that ettiquette is going out the window

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