Fear - No One Comes

YES!! I've been semi freaking about this all week actually..

Our guest list was 160 people, and we've only received confirmation that 50 people are coming from RSVP's. :/ They were due today. I'm giving them until the 1st, and then I'm calling people..

Yes, I have that fear also. I am so ready for the wedding that I have plenty of time before I even mail out the invites. So I am already holding my breath that they will rsvp, and I haven't even sent them yet.

I literally jsut started planning I get anxious at least 4 times a day and just want to elope. How does anyone deal with this haha

I do! lol... I have asked people and i have gotten mostly YES.... but i know that stuff happens... i did have one Aunt tell me, my uncle will come solo cause her 50 something year old sister (that she hasnt talked too in about 6 years) has a birthday that same weekend. lol... i was like. UMMMMMM k. lol i keep thinking, if hardly anyone shows, then it will be even smaller and those people truly care and love me will be there!

Ahh yes that's like my #1 fear! We agreed to a minimum of 150 but it's a Sunday wedding so I'm terrified no one is going to show up! I barely know 200 people (although our parents keep insisting we will get up that high)

I had that dream last night infact. I am like nsybe we should have just eloped

Omg i have that fear also maybe its because im spending so much per person or looking stupid i dont know but it drives me nutts

Yes! I have been freaking out over this, wonderingh if we should have eloped like he wanted.

I am so glad I am not the only one, makes me feel slightly better.

Yep same here! So scared way too many people show up but what if no one does!

If they don't come, then I spend less money on them! Lol. As long as they've RSVP'd no! Ha ha.

We are doing destination wedding in las Vegas. With room block and reception food and drink minimums I worry about it too!!! Oh well 12 people or 50 ppl, it's 5000 bucks anyways.

I know it's coming. We invited 60, so I'm expecting 10 to actually show up, including the wedding party. Sigh.

Yes! I go back and forth between being scared of no one coming and being afraid of everyone coming!

I had this fear also. I just KNEW that only 10 or 15 people would show up, lol. I wonder why we do this to ourselves. I finally stopped caring about a week before the wedding. As long as hubby, me and the officiant was there, I would be fine. (at least, this is what I told myself, lol) But on the day of, nearly everyone we invited was there. WHEW! What a relief.

Ha I am scared too many people will be there!

If only twenty people come you will save on catering and still spend the most important day of your life with people that truly love you!

If too many people come, you'll go over budget and spend it with people you don't even know... (this is my biggest wedding fear)

I actually had this happen at my first wedding ten people came out of the 35 we invited. 5 were the wedding party, ex and myself. I definately don't.expect that this.time

I think most girls go through it..Personally I am. Been worrying that we're going over our guest limit and only to find out the day of that no one shows I'll be crying so much and it won't be tears of joy...

I have the fear that too many people are going to show up. We have 270 to 280 on our guest list and the room only holds 250 and we put half the money down for 200 guests. So far I mailed out my invites last Monday and I have 58 yes and 7 no already.

I had a dream this happened but I seriously doubt it when I have so many people trying invite themselves. My fear is really a lot of crashers showing up lol