Father in law sexual harassment

View Quoted Comment That's great as far as your relationship!

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Omg this is not okay. This is a crime and you have to report it to authorities . Try to stop this from happening again because he is probably doing it to other women and/or girls if he is sharing images with friends. Be strong and get away from that family. Run.
I’m sorry you’re in this nightmare.

Your FFiL has been openly contemplating the logistics of forcibly raping you, he makes pedophilic comments about you, went through your FH's phone to send himself and his friends explicit photos of you. Your FFiL isn't just being creepy. He. Wants. To. Rape. You. He said so himself. Despite all this, your FH's initial reaction was to pressure you to not say anything and let the father come to your wedding. It took several arguments and your reassurance that he'd still be able to see his siblings that he finally came around. These are not the actions of a man who will do everything in his power to protect his siblings or you or your future children. These are the actions of a meek and scared little boy who does not want to rock the boat, whether with you or his father. His gut reaction was to take the path of least resistance to ensure his access to his siblings. Before you marry him, make sure he's not just telling you what you want to hear.


Is he going to have the backbone to support your getting a restraining order against his father? Banning him from the wedding? Filing for custody of his siblings? He may have been supportive of you going to the police, but at the same time wanted you to act normal around his father. How are you supposed to act normal around his father after this? Once the police got involved, did he think his father would not know you had made the report? If you get a restraining order, how is his father going to attend the wedding without violating the order?
Trying to get custody of siblings when there are 2 parents in the picture is going to be an uphill battle. It may not even be possible. The person who is in the best position legally to get sole custody is their mother. Even that will be difficult. Whether their mother intends to do this or not, it's going to be a lot of stress for everyone. Their mother had 3 children with this creeper and is still with him, so I don't know how protective she'd be.
I am not convinced that your FH has the necessary resolve because of his initial hesitancy and the contradictory way in which he tried to "support" you.
You have a serious fiance problem. I am sorry to say this. Before you marry him, you need to make sure he actually follows through and isn't just saying stuff to placate you.

View Quoted Comment Im a guy but I am trying to get the authoritys involved all they keep saying is they can't do anything

View Quoted Comment My fiances initial reaction was anger and disgust before I was told what happened all three of them been arguing about what happened and my fiance tried to assault his father with acting like nothing happened around his father he did say he wouldn't leave me alone with him which still wasn't enough for me because iv been sexaully assaulted before I am still upset with him being okay with the thought of me being around his father at all after this my boyfriend was the one that made the police report he is 3 states away at the moment at his family's and his father isn't allowed at the wedding both his mother and father are abusive father physically and mentally mother mentally and before this happened we was planning to get custody of his brothers and shes not protective of any of her children at all she watched him bash my fiance down on a table when he was only 4 and even more after that and out wedding is in 2023 so thankfully I got alot of time to see how he backs me up before we marry thank you for your concern and imput