I got engaged back in April of 2019, two of my cousins got engaged the same year. My FH and I have been planning for our original date 9/2/21 since day one. We even booked our venue and I bought a dress later in 2019. With Covid things have been a little up in the air but we have still planned for this date even if it just means going to the courthouse. We even sent out save the dates back in Nov of 2020 just in case. Unfortunately, one of my cousins had to postpone her March 2020 wedding in Jamaica when everything first started.
A year goes by and I just learned she sent out her new save the dates this past weekend and she rescheduled for 9/6...the same weekend as my wedding; IN JAMAICA. I know my wedding is Thursday and hers is Monday but I was planning for a nice brunch with my aunts Monday because it is a holiday to thank them for all their help. Now most, if not all of them are leaving right after my wedding and hopping on a plane.
Her mom for sure got my save the date before Thanksgiving and she still chooses to schedule the same weekend. We never hinted at changing our date. Am I wrong for being upset? Or should I just let it go?
