I'm getting married next month and am super excited! Also, feeling lots of other emotions due to people's reactions to our wedding guest list.
1. We've always wanted an intimate wedding.
2. We're paying for it!!!! Damnit! With NO debt and we refuse to change that fact.
I keep freaking out because my family is giving me a hard time about not inviting certain family members. Some of these family members probably didn't even know I was engaged. Some of them probably do not even know my partner's name. But, they're offended nonetheless. Some people are closer and I can more understand them being upset. But, we've explained venue limits and our wants for our wedding (small, intimate).
I am freaking out because my family does not seem to listen to this. For example, my mom insists on bringing my very young nephew, even though his mom (my sister) cannot make it. She's never taken him with her on her vacations to this same destination. But somehow, she insists on bringing him. I've explained over and over that he cannot attend the wedding, and supposedly he will be babysat during that time, but I am not so sure.
My grandma also insists on bringing a drama-filled cousin who I am not close with at all. Despite me explaining over and over again that she is not invited and cannot attend.
Help! Is there a way to prevent family from bringing unwanted guests to your wedding without a total meltdown/freak out.