I have an older sister, we aren't that close (her choice). I've tried to plan dinners with her and her son, trips, holiday get-togethers etc. She never takes me up on my offer. She also never extends the olive branch to me. After we got engaged, I asked her to read something in our ceremony because I wanted her to be a part of the wedding. She said she would think about it. A few weeks back my mom called me, saying how left out my sister felt. So I sent her a heartfelt message (she never answered my phone call or called me back which is normal for her) stating how sorry I was that she felt that way and how I really wanted to develop a relationship with her and her son. She read it then decided to not respond until a week later. She replied with many hurtful things about me and why she doesn't like me based on family rumors she started. That was the straw that broke the camels back.
She will ruin my wedding if she comes.
Would you jeopardize your happiness and invite her?
