Hey brides! So I’m having a tough time with the drama in my family right now. It’s kinda making this whole engagement experience more stressful than I’d like.
My mom wants to be very involved and know everything, which I don’t mind. But, my step mom also would like to be involved and my mom cannot stand her. She always texts me (sometimes at random) about my step mom calling her names and saying that my step mom didn’t birth me so she gets no say.
A little back story, my mom and dad broke up in I think the year 2007. Now I was a child then so I’m not sure exactly what happened, there’s my moms side, my dads side, and the truth. My mom says that my dad cheated on her with my now step mom. My dad says they were trying to work things out but my mom was also seeing someone at her job at the time (and I know this to be true because they did end up together) but when he found out she was interested in the guy, he left and several days later he met my step mom. My parents had many issues. Had me in their teenage years, a lot of cheating on my dads part, physical and mental abuse, and loss of their third child. I understand my moms anger and pain. But she is married now, and birthed a fourth child. And I feel like she should have moved on from the past..
I love my mom and I love my step mom. I just want the fighting to stop. My step mom doesn’t even say anything she just stays quiet. I need my mom to understand that my step mom has a place in my life just like my step dad does.
Let me know what you suggest I should do! Thank you!
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