Falling out after Save-the-Dates were sent...

After they said whatever they said about to, now you know how they truly feel. Is that really a friend or someone you want at the wedding? I vote no.

Doesn't sound like a friend. Sounds like a user/manipulator. Make a decision whether you want him in your life and that will guide your decision regarding the invitation.

Would you like to work on the friendship? Have the great times outweighed the bad? If you have no intention on being friends again, there is no need to extend an invitation. However, if this person has been a great friend and this was just once time where they were out of line then it may not be the best to hold a grudge. Based on the last comment it seems like the relationship is a little impersonal, being work-related and all, that being said I don't think it is necessary to extend the invitation.

Reason 4,575,383 to skip STD's. of all kinds.

I would ask myself: Do I care enough about this person to have him at my wedding even though what happened was not cool, or am I hurt enough and dislike him enough now that I wouldn't enjoy his presence at the wedding? That should answer your invite question.

Hell no don't invite his ass anywhere. You want only positive vibes that day. You guys was already the bigger person by walking away and leaving his simple ass there to dwell on y'all greatness.

I had a major falling out with a friend in March. Her wedding is tomorrow. I didn't receive an invite for her wedding and was uninvited to her bridal shower.

All because she threw me a leaving party that I specifically told her and our bosses I didn't want and would walk out of. Apparently I am an ungrateful bitch because of it.

@Jennifer, did you actually walk out? Not judging, just curious. Or nosy

FH had a falling out with his BM who ended their relationship. He is not getting an invite. Your FH is right, "drunkenness reveals what soberness conceals"

You wouldn't be the bigger person by inviting him. You'd be a regretful person by allowing this person to talk shit on your wedding day.

Fuck proper etiquette. If I sent someone an STD and then realized they were a horrible person I wouldn't invite them because it's good manners.

And if he was drunk that's even worse cause I assume there will be alcohol at the reception.

If you think it's worth it, try to fix whatever the problem is before sending the invites. I'd cut'em myself. I don't have time for b.s. Life is too short.

Well for me, I wouldn't invite him. I had sent the save the date to a girlfriend of mine but I did not send her an invitation- a couple of reasons made me decide against it. That's life! Don't feel the need to please everyone. Go with exactly how you feel because, if you invite him, the moment you see him on your wedding day, you will remember all the hurtful things he said. You honestly don't want any kind of negative energy on your wedding day- just my honest opinion.

Another reason not to send STDs, especially to people like coworkers.

I agree with B.roo as well. You don't have to make this decision right now - your invites aren't going out until August. Who cares if you have to order 1 extra? See what happens with the friendship between now and then.

Mmm I wouldn't. I wouldn't want him there criticizing my wedding.

I had this same exact situation. When it was time to send out invites, I sent him a text. I explained etiquette said I was to send an invite, but didn't know how he would feel. It opened the door to a bigger conversation and we really worked out a lot of our problems. So if you have any interest in repairing the relationship, I would say send it. If not, I don't think they would expect an invite.

He sounds like an asscravat.

He's given you good reason not to invite. If you want to go nuclear on the friendship: if he later asks why there was no invite you can always point out that you make less than him and needed to make cuts somewhere. Make sure to thank him for pointing out your income.... but then again I'm a sarcastic bitch at times.

Definitely do not send an invitation. That's a very low blow, and you should be surrounded by positive and supporting friends and family. That doesn't sound like a friend to me. And don't worry about the Save the Date, especially after a falling out like that.

Honestly if the friendship isn't worth fighting for then don't invite them, he sounds like an asshat.