Over the last few months things keep going wrong. We picked our date &started planning the wedding, then the list got to be to big and we didn't want to spend that much money on a wedding, when we want to buy a house. So we changed it to small wedding of 50 people in January.
Then, all the drama, &issues started. My maid of honor, is no longer apart of this. My to-be mother in-law has demanded more people be invited, so our list is now at 75. She doesn't like that we are getting married by a deacon & not a priest.
I keep getting attacked, with my guest list size, what i'm choosing to spend money on from all sides. I'm stressed out and don't know what to do anymore. I just want to marry my fiance, I'm not enjoying my wedding process at all. What should I do, elope, or just keep pushing forward? I don't know what to do anymore, am I alone in this issue, or is this normal & I'm just going through the process & being overly sensitive?
